Dating as a gay guy in New York is hard. I know that I need to be more proactive and go out to gay bars and meet guys because the internet just doesn’t work. Anyway, as many of you know, I have been playing a texting game with this guy Ryan. I met Ryan out at a bar / lounge in New York a few weeks ago.
We called each other and left voicemails and then the texting game started. Granted, I would call him and leave a voicemail and he would text me back. Now, when a guy texts you back and keeps asking what’s up and wants to hang out I would think that he is interested. So, the last few days we have been texting back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to grab coffee or a drink sometime this week. He got back to me saying he is busy with a birthday party, class and doesn’t know if he is around this weekend.
I dunno, I just get so many mixed messages from this guy. He wants to hang out, then he’s busy which sounds like he is not wanting to hang out, then I get more texts. I dunno. I just need to get out there again. At least I am getting texts from this guy.