tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post2814805475597354423..comments2023-11-02T09:26:39.043-04:00Comments on Overnight in New York: Internet vs. Gay BarsJP Machttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03079935669325900267noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-47465545660461248242007-01-28T20:28:00.000-05:002007-01-28T20:28:00.000-05:00In Sarajevo, you have internet, but no gay bars, j...In Sarajevo, you have internet, but no gay bars, just gay friendly bars (although that is rare as well). that i why you are left with an internet.T.A.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10621124253357854868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-79049524533740912302007-01-28T13:37:00.000-05:002007-01-28T13:37:00.000-05:00I used to go to Gotham when I lived in CT, always ...I used to go to Gotham when I lived in CT, always used to find it a pretty tough, unresponsive crowd. If you can feel comfortable there, I think you can make it anywhere.<br /><br />Anyway, I found your blog recently, and am really enjoying it. Just wanted to say hi. :)Cooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12547417405602800742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-26506451740907599422007-01-27T00:11:00.000-05:002007-01-27T00:11:00.000-05:00hey JP, excellent post. yeah I went through a big ...hey JP, excellent post. yeah I went through a big interenet stage, then got bored of trying to find anything in okc. but man, i don't know, I guess I need to get out and check the bars sometime in okc maybe. met a few at the gym past couple of years, been all right.later.danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15279055010724093677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-37661733651303778442007-01-26T17:38:00.000-05:002007-01-26T17:38:00.000-05:00have made a really good friend on the internet...b...have made a really good friend on the internet...but totally agree about pursuing any guy that way. It's just too damn stressful to go out and meet somebody....people will always post the absolute BEST pic. of themselves, of course. It's just so much easier to meet somebody for the 1st time, face to face...then take it from there.....although so many losers pursue me when I go out, but that's part of life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-46303930168406335822007-01-26T17:33:00.000-05:002007-01-26T17:33:00.000-05:00JP, you are right, the online thing can be difficu...JP, you are right, the online thing can be difficult because it does seem like almost everyone out there just wants sex and nothing more. And if your looking for something more than you SOL. <br /><br />Keep your chin up though, you will find someone. Keep going to gay bars and put yourself out there. You're a very outgoing guy . . . that can be intimdating to the hottie who digs you. And by no means am I saying to stop being outgoing!VpOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17432603409060053359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-60074579155026519562007-01-25T19:05:00.000-05:002007-01-25T19:05:00.000-05:00Haha...I know you lectured me about the whole onli...Haha...I know you lectured me about the whole online vs. going out to a bar deal.<br /><br />Okay...I swear I'm going to go to a bar for reals and with company this time out to a bar in LA called Rage sometime in February with some friends (two of whom I just told recently about me being bi). So I was assured that I should find some hot guys looking for guys like myself at the club! Can't wait...Okay it's not a bar but close enough! :D<br /><br />fI<br /><br />P.S. I need to cancel my online dating account at pair up.com (find the synonym for pair up) and gay.com...SOOO over those two sites! Bleh! :pfirstimpre55ionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10836927667081896428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-77951334219425399852007-01-25T19:03:00.000-05:002007-01-25T19:03:00.000-05:00JP I feel the same way about meeting guys on-line;...JP I feel the same way about meeting guys on-line; it's a huge waste of time and nothing serious will ever come of it. Having just moved to Chicago not to long ago I still feel odd going to gay bars on my own but I'm forcing myself to do and so far it's been cool, though still a strange.JUSTINhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14998421667028223412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6764956231504520964.post-64117389532777421182007-01-25T13:04:00.000-05:002007-01-25T13:04:00.000-05:00when i was single, i never liked going to the bars...when i was single, i never liked going to the bars alone. I always felt like a desperate loser. It was difficult to overcome. Now, I just go to see friends. so if BF is out of town I don't feel so bad going solo. Funny too, BF and I originall met online before we started dating, but I can also relate to what you were saying.<br /><br />-WillWillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18264293434144450089noreply@blogger.com